Hardworking, humble, Christ-like, loving fathers, missions-minded and soul-winners. They are strong, responsible, selfless, and unafraid to drive a minivan! They are trustworthy, they are leaders. They are not wimpy. They are not "sensitive" nor are they "in touch with their feminine side". The good ones do not have a feminine side! LOL
As you know, I started another blog, this one is Spanish, for young ladies. I am trying to offer practical advice on how to determine if a guy is not a loser. There are so many losers out there, even in the Churches. So, I am trying to make a list of the most important traits, those that are absolutely necessary. Looks are actually irrelevant. I've seen some ugly guys whose wives think they are the handsomest.(gag) As Louisa May Alcott wrote "love is a great beautifier"
Here's my order. Besides being a child of God:
1.Hardworking (this is actually responsible, too)
2 Trustworthy (this also takes care of the pornography issue)
3.Evangelistic (a missionary and a soul-winner)
Now about the "humble" and "selfless". Its hard to get "strong" and "humble and selfless"
Those who are strong tend to not have self-esteem issues ; )
What do think the guys would say about this, huh?
PS, my husband loves our minivan!
6 months ago